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Good chemistry is something that most, if not all people need in long term relationships, and marriage. The mistake that I’ve made and witnessed is confusing mind blowing chemistry for something more than what it is. It’s why I feel couples should wait a certain amount of time before having sex. If you act on that chemistry immediately you can build a false attachment to a person. I’m not saying this happens to everyone. But I know that it happened to me.
I know that as I was getting to know a person, we took that step before we should’ve. It just felt natural because the chemistry was so intense. But that was the mistake. Allowing the intense chemistry we had lead us to take a step before we were ready. Before we really knew what we were to each other. So if you’re like me and you attach emotion to sex, then at that point you’ve now invested yourself into the land of “the unknown”. Unknown because you have no clue what you just gave yourself to, beyond the person that’s been presented to you. And if you’re a woman you just told that guy he can have you and everything that comes with dating you without investing himself. At that point you have one invested person, and one person that feels they don’t have to invest to get what they want.
The foundation of the whole relationship is shaky because it was built on good chemistry alone. And believe me when I tell you, that is a recipe for disaster. Why? Because everything else built on top of that shaky foundation will come tumbling down.
This has just been something on my mind. Ya’ll stay awesome and stay tuned. I have a few other things on my mind, and on my list. We’ll see what else comes out tonight.
– That LoOpy Chick 😜🍸